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One of the most valuable things about becoming acquainted with an individual/ individual’s is having an opportunity of being able to build a good relationship.

Accepting the bare minimum when it comes to relationships is somewhat robbing yourself of much interaction and support that is available.

Having a good relationship is a must in every aspect or system of life. Where the relationship is minimal, the product of such will be minimal.

To get the most out of a relationship requires one to steady build it to make it better. It works better when it comes from both sides, however half a loaf is better than none.

Building and/or perfecting a relationship begins with the perfector possessing the character of kindness among many others. Kindness signifies a fruit of the spirit that’s mentioned in Galatians 5:22v. Kindness is an action word that welcomes new construction and basic repairs on relationships. Kindness is a good state of mind to be in when it comes to doing things for the betterment of human interaction.

However, kindness alone is not enough to merit the building and perfecting of such. Having God as Lord and Savior of your personal life, it is He that enables you and qualifies you to build a strong and positive relationship. We first have to possess a desire to want more out of a relationship, whether it be with our spouse/family, community organizations and or church affiliate. Even in the workforce.

Having the love of God in our hearts is a sensor that measures how strong the relationships we are involved in, at this point we know if better can be achieved.

Even the Apostle Paul served notice upon the church of Corinth in I Corinthians 13:1v.-3v. of how worthless one action and deeds are when they try to live without having or showing the true love of God towards each other. Even Jesus told his disciples in Matthew 25:35-40, the bad treatment they did to people in general they basically did to Him.

Again, this signifies a poor relationship between the disciples and people, however the disciples were at the right place in training with the right person. As a result, these disciples become perfectors of relationships at minimal not only with and for themselves but with many others as well.

A strong relationship is very healthy in every aspect of life, marriage, family, church, work force, community organizations and more. A good relationship possesses many valuable gifts and support. We find that there are some that do not see the importance of having a relationship much less a good one.

This is where we as a perfector of relationships can step in and work as a mediator and hopefully coach them into having more communicational moments, being more considerate of each other, doing more self-evaluation and seeking God more for personal help and guidance. When you can aid this agenda to many that you know it will make a huge difference in making a credible and positive society.

This being the graduation season, which is one of the most exciting times for students, parents, family, and friends to see their loved ones receiving their credentials they just deserve. This adds to their educational resume making them a more qualified and exceptional perfector in relationships.Matthew (Matthew 9:37v.-38v.) tells us that the fields are all white and ready to be harvested, but the laborers are few in number.

The white fields that’s ready for harvest are people in general that’s experiencing problems of all types with having a poor relationship being one of them. Some are reaching out for help in their own way for someone to help them to make a better connection with their cousin, brother, or sister, father or mother, or that individual that’s been a friend for life.

As a perfector of relationships, you can help them navigate through the misunderstandings, or through some decisions you made that weren’t agreeable to them that initiated a space of separation and a broken link that weakened the good relationship they once had.

The perfector or relationships, which can be you, can impute that misunderstandings and one’s own personal desires and decisions hold no value to the loss of real friendship.

As a perfector of relationships lets help to bridge those gaps, reconnect neighbors, help families to rid themselves of things from the past that prohibited togetherness and communication that they can begin to enjoy the fellowship, and peaceful gathering they had been missing out on.

Stewart Ham is the pastor of New Growth Unlimited Ministries in Aurora