McKeithan Column|Husband lowers bar for Mothers Day
Published 8:41 pm Friday, May 15, 2009
By By RAY MCKEITHAN
Wedding license to be revoked
I am excited to awake each day, refreshed in the knowledge that I cant possibly make a bigger fool of myself than I had the day before. I retire to bed each night, hopelessly defeated, knowing that I have done so.
This is the daily cycle of my life, a universal certainty as predictable as tidal changes, solar eclipses, and naptime.
Another certainty is that Mothers Day will arrive the second Sunday of each May, and I will give my beautiful wife a lousy present. This past Sunday, my worthlessness was on full display as I shattered her expectations once more. (And, trust me its already a LOW bar.)
I didnt even give her a gift.
Given my history, its understandable. I bought her a beautiful bracelet for Valentines Day; she was allergic to the metal-like substance from which it was made (which apparently was radioactive).
Not that I didnt attempt to find her something. I was in Raleigh for a meeting last week and went to the big mall there, hoping to find something extra-special-for-the-person-I-love-most; but I couldnt find anything I wanted. So, I decided to shop for my beautiful wife. I spent three hours in that soulless place (two in the food court).
I decided to get her something expensive and classy. I went to the big-mall-map-thingy and tried to find the Expensive and Classy listing on the directory. No such thing, so I scrolled down alphabetically until I found the place that is synonymous with class: Spencers Gifts.
After intense searching, I found several items in the store assured of putting me in the good husband column.
The Fart-O-Nator* was a cant-miss gift. Controlled by remote, the machine made sounds that would crack-up the folks at my beautiful wifes church job, or her Chamber of Commerce gig. Sadly, at $12.99, it exceeded my budget.
I was in a quandary, so I called my beautiful wife to feel her out on a gift idea. Honey, the dealership tells me that the new Cadillac Extravaganza I bought you for Mothers Day has been discontinued due to the recession. Golly-darn-it.
But, I think Ive found something even better Fake Dog Poo Poo. Do you have enough?
Apparently, cell phone reception in the mall is sketchy because the phone went dead.
I visited other stores in the mall. Glamour Shots had a couples special, but I figured I wouldnt look good in a feather boa.
Eventually, I ended up at Everything Here is Just a Quarter and found a touching card with a mismatched, undersized envelope. I made up for it by underlining special sentimental words inside with TWO LINES (the; a; and Kwanzaa) so she would know that she is loved EXTRA MUCH.
(And she is thanks for being such a good sport, Honey.)
The obligatory McKeithan Column disclaimer: Mr. McKeithan does his shopping locally whenever possible, to support our merchants and the economy. *The Fart-O-Nator is a real device the WDN apologizes to anyone offended by reference to this gadget. The holiday card reference is used to highlight McKeithans inability to even pick a Mothers Day card properly. No disrespect is intended to the holiday mentioned, or to those who observe it.
____________________________OK to laugh
I have often been told recently that tough times are when humor is needed most. With that in mind, I offer this silly column. No, I dont think Im funny but being laughed AT is a risk Im willing to take. Laughter, in any form, is OK with me.
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Ray McKeithan is Associate Publisher/GM of the Washington Daily News and a devoted husband to his beautiful wife. Your negative comments about him and his writing can be sent directly to his e-mail address: email@example.com.