The great debate: When to open Christmas presents
Published 5:13 pm Monday, December 23, 2013
To open or not to open Christmas presents on Christmas Eve? That is the question.
For almost as long as there’s been Christmas trees with presents under them, there’s been debate on whether to open those presents Christmas Eve or wait until Christmas.
Some folks say those presents must be opened Christmas. Other folks say it’s just fine to open those presents Christmas Eve. Then there’s that crowd that says — and does — open some presents Christmas Eve and the remaining presents Christmas.
“There is no right way. It’s whatever you like,” said Herman Gaskins, a Washington attorney. “It’s nobody’s business when I open my gifts. That’s my point.”
Whit Whitley, a New Bern attorney and a candidate for the 3rd District seat in the North Carolina House of Representatives, weighed in on the issue while in Washington for an interview about his candidacy.
“I try as hard as I can not to celebrate Christmas until after Thanksgiving,” Whitley said. “I’m a traditionalist. I’ve never liked opening presents ahead. … That’s been a losing battle for me. I would tend to side with Herman that the damage of trying to enforce that tradition doesn’t outweigh just kind of going with what’s going to be most peaceful for everybody. I think now families like to have their own Christmas, especially smaller families. In other words, I think the days of going and staying with their parents you’ll probably see that less. So, you’re necessarily having to open presents on days other than Christmas Day. So, it’s kind of the norm now.”
Washington resident Melvin Collins isn’t particular when it comes to a time to open Christmas presents.
“I’ll open some on Christmas. I’ll open some on Christmas Eve,” Collins said.
Kevin and Meagan Davenport, who were married in June 2012, have compromised on the matter.
“I grew up opening presents on Christmas Day. We didn’t open them Christmas Eve, but we would get up early Christmas morning to open them,” Kevin Davenport said.
“In my family, we would open presents Christmas Eve, then go to bed early so Santa Claus would come. We’d wake up early Christmas morning and go see what Santa left us,” Meagan Davenport said.
“Last Christmas, we compromised. We each opened two presents Christmas Eve and the rest on Christmas,” she said.
“We’ll do the same this Christmas Eve and Christmas morning,” Kevin Davenport said.
All this talk about opening Christmas presents raises another question: unwrap them carefully, neatly folding the wrapping paper or just rip into them, shredding the wrapping paper?
Let’s save that debate for next Christmas.